कॉकरोच थ्योरी फॉर सेल्फ-डेवलपमेंट

 जो लोग सुखी हैं वे इसलिए सुखी नहीं हैं क्योंकि उनके जीवन में सबकुछ सही है…वो इसलिए सुखी हैं क्योंकि उनके जीवन में जो कुछ भी होता है उसके प्रति उनका attitude सही होता है।

A cockroach suddenly flown in a restaurant and sat on a woman’s wrist.

The woman became frightened and started shouting bouncing … Cockroach … cockroach …

The other people who came along with him also became panic … In this operation, once the woman jerked sharply and cockroach jumped from her wrist and went to the other woman with her only to leave. Now this lady had a turn to shout … She was nervous like the first lady and started shouting loudly!

A distant waiter was looking at all of this, he came closer to the help of the woman that when the cockroach flew, he went on his shoulder.

The waiter stood quietly. As if he did not make any difference to it, he began to see the activities of Cockroach carefully and seeing the right opportunity, he picked up the napkin paper and kept the cockroach thrown out.

I was drinking coffee there and seeing all this came a question in my mind … Was that cockroach responsible for whatever happened with those women?

If yes, then why did not he scared the waiter?

Rather, he handled the whole situation without being disturbed, completely pertinent.

Actually, she was not a cockroach, but she was incompetent of women who could not handle the situation created by Cockroach.

I have been realizing that it is not a screaming of my father, my boss or my wife, who disturbs me, but I have the ability to not handle the disturbance caused by their screaming which disturbs me.

This road is not a traffic jam, which bothers me, but it is my inability to not deal with the hassle caused by the jam, which bothers me.

That is, more than problems, I have a reaction on those problems that really bother me.

What do i learn from

I learn that I should not respond to life in response.

The women reacted on the presence of cockroaches while the waiter responded … the reaction is always instinctive … without thinking, while the response is something to be thought out.

A beautiful way of understanding life-

Those who are happy, are not happy because everything in their life is correct … They are happy because their attitude towards whatever happens in their life is correct.